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Survivor story
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Message to a Survivor
Just know that it's not your fault if this has also happened to you. You were not responsible for it, you were too young or fragile to know.
This is something about a few years ago, I was groomed by someone on Twitch. I found an Italian twitch streamer who seemed pretty nice. He played game name, which was a game I had also been playing for a while. I started chatting with the others in the chat, including the streamer, and I was generally having a good time with them. After the stream, I joined their discord server and began talking to them. The streamer also greeted me and then added me on discord. We started chatting in private, and he seemed pretty nice. I was 13 and he was 17 going 18 at the time. After a bit of talking, he asked me if I could ERP with him, and I agreed for some reason. Unfortunately, it became an habit for him to ERP with me. He would even want to ERP while I was crying and ranting to him, which was absolutely horrible (This is because it was a period when I was extremely depressed and fragile). He had a girlfriend, which was also disgusting, and she didn't really care about what he was doing with me. Once, he literally sent me a picture of his butt while he was in a skirt, even if I had asked him not to (he was doing an Astolfo cosplay). The people in his discord server soon became very toxic, as they all began hating me at some point, plus they encouraged his behavior with me. One time, he sent me a screenshot of his chat with his girlfriend where he asked her if she wanted to have a threesome with me and him (they were both 18 at this point, and I was 14). We also met up at Comicon, where I fortunately went to with my brother and his ex-girlfriend. Sometimes I feel like that if my brother wasn't there, he would've done something to me. I recently talked to him again, and fortunately I was the only one who he did this to. I still feel very alone, tho. I can't tell anyone about this because I lost all the chats with him, I have no proof to backup my words anymore. I can't even go to the police because it's something that happened too far back.
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Grounding activity
Find a comfortable place to sit. Gently close your eyes and take a couple of deep breaths - in through your nose (count to 3), out through your mouth (count of 3). Now open your eyes and look around you. Name the following out loud:
5 – things you can see (you can look within the room and out of the window)
4 – things you can feel (what is in front of you that you can touch?)
3 – things you can hear
2 – things you can smell
1 – thing you like about yourself.
Take a deep breath to end.
From where you are sitting, look around for things that have a texture or are nice or interesting to look at.
Hold an object in your hand and bring your full focus to it. Look at where shadows fall on parts of it or maybe where there are shapes that form within the object. Feel how heavy or light it is in your hand and what the surface texture feels like under your fingers (This can also be done with a pet if you have one).
Take a deep breath to end.
Ask yourself the following questions and answer them out loud:
1. Where am I?
2. What day of the week is today?
3. What is today’s date?
4. What is the current month?
5. What is the current year?
6. How old am I?
7. What season is it?
Take a deep breath to end.
Put your right hand palm down on your left shoulder. Put your left hand palm down on your right shoulder. Choose a sentence that will strengthen you. For example: “I am powerful.” Say the sentence out loud first and pat your right hand on your left shoulder, then your left hand on your right shoulder.
Alternate the patting. Do ten pats altogether, five on each side, each time repeating your sentences aloud.
Take a deep breath to end.
Cross your arms in front of you and draw them towards your chest. With your right hand, hold your left upper arm. With your left hand, hold your right upper arm. Squeeze gently, and pull your arms inwards. Hold the squeeze for a little while, finding the right amount of squeeze for you in this moment. Hold the tension and release. Then squeeze for a little while again and release. Stay like that for a moment.
Take a deep breath to end.