Our Waveにようこそ
ここは、トラウマや虐待のサバイバーが、支えてくれる仲間たちとともに自分たちのストーリーを分かち合う場です。
これらのストーリーは、真っ暗だと感じる時にも希望が存在することに気づかせてくれます。
あなたの経験したことは決して一人ではありません。
誰でもいやされることは可能なのです。
0
メンバー
0
ビュー
0
リアクション
0
ストーリーを読む
緊急の支援が必要な方は、{{resource}} をご訪問ください。
サバイバーのストーリー
Name(the name my mother never liked)
オリジナルストーリー
サバイバーへのメッセージ
Hope means whatever you want it to, no one gets to define it but you. For me, hope is knowing that I’m more than what happened to me, and I’m accomplishing more than my abuser ever will. Hope was moving out of the country and creating a family that would never intentionally hurt me. Hope is the idea that one day I’ll have babies who will never know the force of a parent’s fist.
いやしのメッセージ
I healed through forgiveness. It wasn’t for my abuser, but for myself. I forgave my mother, a scared child with no opportunities to grow higher. I forgave the teenage girl who gave birth to me, and only knew how to discipline in the same way she’d grown up. And most importantly, I forgave myself. I forgave myself for lying to those around me about the bruises and cuts I’d always have. I forgave myself for lying to the police after they were called to our house. And I forgave myself for convincing the child I once was, that mommy’s pain was worth more than her own. It wasn’t but I love her more than enough to know she just wanted to do the “right” thing.
It ended with me. I remember the day my mother slammed my head into the floor until I bled, I was 9. I remember her nails digging so deep into my arm that I hid the cuts and bruises they left, I was 12. I remember my dad protecting me as soon as he understood, I was 14. I remember it because I live it every day, even though it hasn’t happened in 6 years. A survivor is a survivor for the rest of their life, no one gets to take their strength away from them anymore. They know how much it’s worth.
確認中...
コメントを削除しますか？
入力中のコメントですが、本当に削除してもよろしいですか？
0
メンバー
0
ビュー
0
リアクション
0
ストーリーを読む
緊急の支援が必要な方は、{{resource}} をご訪問ください。
Our Wave を安心して使える場に保つため、コミュニティ・ガイドラインの遵守にご協力ください。すべてのメッセージは投稿前に確認され、個人が特定される情報は削除されます。