No one should go through what I went through at the hands of my abuser. I found myself in a difficult situation after getting married to my ex-husband, who was and still is the {~title~} of one of the Magistrates Courts of that Country. I had a battered and traumatic experience all the 9 years of our marriage (experiences like having seven stitches done on my torn neck, being battered on a weekly basis with men’s leather belt and a big wooden cane made from tree he kept in his private room just for me; often times asked to go on my knees as an act of discipline or preparation to get beaten, internal bleeding, skin bruising, bleeding from my ears, noses, mouth; blows and punches to my face that spills blood from cuts) but because I loved him, his reputation, against the advice of many. I suffered in silence and lived in fear due to the threat to my life. The police failed me as they called him their boss. Escape! Say No More!!!

Look At Me Now! :)

Healing to me means being able to SPEAK OUT about what happened and still feel SAFE. Coming out to face the world about my past physical/psychological/emotional abuse was a huge step in overcoming my fears. I am hopeful that my story will inspire others finding themselves in situations such as these to seek help immediately. No one should be abused! I currently live with all my children, my current lovely spouse and work as a professional Clinical Engineer, fulfilling my responsibilities and desires as a care provider. I always confess to myself “I AM IN THE SHELTER OF THE MOST HIGH” “THE LORD IS MY LIFE AND MY SALVATION, WHOM SHOULD I FEAR, HE IS THE STRENGTH OF MY LIFE, WHY SHOULD I BE AFRAID!” I here to say NO MORE to all forms of Domestic Abuse!

Disabled from past physical abuse

Disability

When I heard the diagnosis from the medical specialist doctor that I would be disabled due to the result of my scans and tests. I could not hold back the memory of the brutal beatings I had experienced and endured for years. My ex had messed me up and years later I am living the repercussions of his physical abuse.