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#1187
1 month later
Message to a Survivor
Every day is a new day, and a new chance to make yourself better.
Message of Healing
Healing is having self-love, self-compassion, and knowing your worth.
I told him I wanted a divorce! It should be final in month. I am so scared of the unknowns, but I know I'm making the right choice. The mom guilt is very strong, because the manipulations have already begun with them and I'm terrified of how it will all play out and affect them, but I will protect them as much as I can. Even with all my fears, there's a light at the end of the tunnel now. There's a light.
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Message to a Survivor
Loving yourself will come, and when it does, it will open doors you didn't even know were there.
Message of Healing
Healing means loving myself. Looking in the mirror and having compassion for the woman I see. Forgiving myself for not knowing better. Finding the tools to be better.
After over a decade, I'm just now coming out of a fog and realizing I've been abused since before we even married. I feel so lost right now. I'm trying to forgive myself, love myself, and gain strength, all while still having to be married to my abuser. I want to leave but don't have the resources to. And I cannot stomach the thought of my children having to suffer even weekend visits with him without me there as a shield. I'm so exhausted. I'm so hurt and angry and sad. He's abused me physically, emotionally, mentally, and financially. I feel so trapped and don't really see a way out for me and my kids. When I watched It Ends With Us, I related so much because I knew exactly how it felt to look back and finally realize what had actually happened. I am just now processing so much that I didn't feel safe enough to even consider was abuse before. It's hard and sometimes I want to hide from it all, but I know the only way to heal and somehow leave is to face what I've been through head on and make a plan to escape.
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