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Guinea](/ja/answer/someone-kissed-me-while-i-was-drunk-and-they-were-completely-sober-when-i-confronted-them-they-told-me-i-insisted-it-happens-and-begged-for-it-and-that-im-the-one-who-left-them-in-discomfort-and-they-said-no-and-i-kept-trying-and-thats-why-they-ended-up-kissing-me-but-at-the-same-time-they-admit-i-didnt-make-them-do-anything-against-their-will-while-im-pretty-sure-this-didnt-happen-and-i-remember-so-well-taking-distance-at-some-point-and-them-leaning-in-to-kiss-me-again-they-even-put-me-to-bed-and-kissed-my-forehead-what-they-told-me-left-me-so-confused-i-was-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-got-harassed-and-now-im-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-perpetrated-coercion-and-who-pressured-them-please-help-me-find-an-answer-165?country=gq)[\[Image: 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Ireland\]Ireland](/ja/answer/someone-kissed-me-while-i-was-drunk-and-they-were-completely-sober-when-i-confronted-them-they-told-me-i-insisted-it-happens-and-begged-for-it-and-that-im-the-one-who-left-them-in-discomfort-and-they-said-no-and-i-kept-trying-and-thats-why-they-ended-up-kissing-me-but-at-the-same-time-they-admit-i-didnt-make-them-do-anything-against-their-will-while-im-pretty-sure-this-didnt-happen-and-i-remember-so-well-taking-distance-at-some-point-and-them-leaning-in-to-kiss-me-again-they-even-put-me-to-bed-and-kissed-my-forehead-what-they-told-me-left-me-so-confused-i-was-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-got-harassed-and-now-im-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-perpetrated-coercion-and-who-pressured-them-please-help-me-find-an-answer-165?country=ie)[\[Image: Japan\]Japan](/ja/answer/someone-kissed-me-while-i-was-drunk-and-they-were-completely-sober-when-i-confronted-them-they-told-me-i-insisted-it-happens-and-begged-for-it-and-that-im-the-one-who-left-them-in-discomfort-and-they-said-no-and-i-kept-trying-and-thats-why-they-ended-up-kissing-me-but-at-the-same-time-they-admit-i-didnt-make-them-do-anything-against-their-will-while-im-pretty-sure-this-didnt-happen-and-i-remember-so-well-taking-distance-at-some-point-and-them-leaning-in-to-kiss-me-again-they-even-put-me-to-bed-and-kissed-my-forehead-what-they-told-me-left-me-so-confused-i-was-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-got-harassed-and-now-im-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-perpetrated-coercion-and-who-pressured-them-please-help-me-find-an-answer-165?country=jp)[\[Image: 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# 酔っているときに、シラフの人にキスされました。後で彼らに問いただすと、彼らは私がそれを強要し懇願したため、彼らがノーと言った後も試み続けたことで彼らを不快にさせたと主張しました。彼らはそれが最終的に私にキスした理由だと言いますが、私が彼らの意に反して何かを強制したわけではないことは認めています。私はそれが起こったことではないと確信しています。ある時点で距離を取った後、彼らが再び私にキスしようと体を乗り出したことをはっきり覚えています。彼らは私をベッドに寝かせ、額にキスさえしました。彼らの話を聞いて私はとても混乱しました。最初は嫌がらせを受けたのかと思いましたが、今では私が彼らに圧力をかけたり強要したりしたのではないかと疑問に思っています。この状況を理解するために助けが必要です。

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トピックス:[大人の経験を理解する](/ja/learn/topics/making-sense-of-adult-experiences)

お問い合わせいただきありがとうございます。あなたが説明した状況は非常に複雑で、混乱したり葛藤したりするのは当然です。このような種類の出会いは、特にアルコールが関係していて記憶が不明瞭または矛盾している場合、対処が難しいグレーゾーンにあることがよくあります。

あなたのストーリーには、いくつかの重要なポイントが際立っています。

1\. あなたは酔っていて、相手はまったく酔っていませんでした。これにより、同意能力と意思決定能力に大きな不均衡が生じます。
2\. 一度距離を置いた後、相手がまたあなたにキスをするために体を傾けてきたという明確な記憶は重要です。これは、あなたが距離を置いた後も相手がさらに接触を始めたことを示唆しています。
3\. あなたをベッドに寝かせ、額にキスをしたということは、彼らがあなたの弱い状態を認識していたことを示しています。

これらの要素は、状況の動向を理解し、不快感や懸念の感情を検証する上で非常に重要です。

相手が酔っていなかったとしても、あなたの行動や言葉を誤解した可能性があることを認識することが重要です。特にあなたが愛情表現をしたり、しつこくしたりしていた場合、相手はあなたが同意できると信じ、あなたが本当にそのやり取りを望んでいると信じたかもしれません。相手は、あなたがどの程度酔っていたか、または酔っている人と性的に関係を持つことの意味を完全に理解していなかった可能性があります。

そうは言っても、彼らが冷静だったことで、明確で熱心な同意を確実にするより大きな責任が彼らに課せられたことを強調することが重要です。たとえ彼らがその瞬間にあなたが同意していると信じていたとしても、倫理的な選択は、あなたが冷静になるまで性的行為に従事するのを待つことだったでしょう。

彼らの矛盾した説明 ― あなたに圧力をかけられたと主張しながらも、彼らの意志に反して何かをさせられたわけではないと認めている ― は、状況に対する彼ら自身の混乱や罪悪感を反映している可能性があります。彼らは、自分の行動と、自分の価値観や同意の理解を一致させることに苦労しているのかもしれません。

この状況はあなたのせいではないことを覚えておくことが重要です。酔っているからといって、他人の行動や決断に責任を負うわけではありません。たとえあなたが浮気をしたり、しつこく迫ったりしていたとしても、あなたは十分な情報に基づいた同意を与える状態ではなく、しらふの相手もそれを認識しているはずです。

同時に、これは故意に傷つけたのではなく、コミュニケーション不足や判断ミスによるものである可能性もあります。これは、不快感や後悔の気持ちを否定するものではありませんが、この出来事を処理するのに役立つかもしれません。

この経験をどう解釈し、どう分類するかは、あなただけが決めることができます。侵害された、または利用されたと感じるなら、その感情はまったく正当なものです。確信が持てなかったり、誤解だったと感じたりするのも正当なことです。最も重要なのは、あなたがどう感じているか、そして前進するために何が必要かということです。

これらの問題を専門とするカウンセラーやセラピストに相談することを検討してください。彼らはあなたの気持ちを整理するための安全な場所を提供し、この出来事による混乱や感情的な影響に対処するための戦略を提案してくれます。私たちに連絡してくださり、改めて感謝いたします。あなたは一人ではありませんし、あなたの経験は正当なものです。

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Bolivia\]Bolivia](/ja/answer/someone-kissed-me-while-i-was-drunk-and-they-were-completely-sober-when-i-confronted-them-they-told-me-i-insisted-it-happens-and-begged-for-it-and-that-im-the-one-who-left-them-in-discomfort-and-they-said-no-and-i-kept-trying-and-thats-why-they-ended-up-kissing-me-but-at-the-same-time-they-admit-i-didnt-make-them-do-anything-against-their-will-while-im-pretty-sure-this-didnt-happen-and-i-remember-so-well-taking-distance-at-some-point-and-them-leaning-in-to-kiss-me-again-they-even-put-me-to-bed-and-kissed-my-forehead-what-they-told-me-left-me-so-confused-i-was-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-got-harassed-and-now-im-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-perpetrated-coercion-and-who-pressured-them-please-help-me-find-an-answer-165?country=bo)[\[Image: Canada\]Canada](/ja/answer/someone-kissed-me-while-i-was-drunk-and-they-were-completely-sober-when-i-confronted-them-they-told-me-i-insisted-it-happens-and-begged-for-it-and-that-im-the-one-who-left-them-in-discomfort-and-they-said-no-and-i-kept-trying-and-thats-why-they-ended-up-kissing-me-but-at-the-same-time-they-admit-i-didnt-make-them-do-anything-against-their-will-while-im-pretty-sure-this-didnt-happen-and-i-remember-so-well-taking-distance-at-some-point-and-them-leaning-in-to-kiss-me-again-they-even-put-me-to-bed-and-kissed-my-forehead-what-they-told-me-left-me-so-confused-i-was-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-got-harassed-and-now-im-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-perpetrated-coercion-and-who-pressured-them-please-help-me-find-an-answer-165?country=ca)[\[Image: Chile\]Chile](/ja/answer/someone-kissed-me-while-i-was-drunk-and-they-were-completely-sober-when-i-confronted-them-they-told-me-i-insisted-it-happens-and-begged-for-it-and-that-im-the-one-who-left-them-in-discomfort-and-they-said-no-and-i-kept-trying-and-thats-why-they-ended-up-kissing-me-but-at-the-same-time-they-admit-i-didnt-make-them-do-anything-against-their-will-while-im-pretty-sure-this-didnt-happen-and-i-remember-so-well-taking-distance-at-some-point-and-them-leaning-in-to-kiss-me-again-they-even-put-me-to-bed-and-kissed-my-forehead-what-they-told-me-left-me-so-confused-i-was-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-got-harassed-and-now-im-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-perpetrated-coercion-and-who-pressured-them-please-help-me-find-an-answer-165?country=cl)[\[Image: Colombia\]Colombia](/ja/answer/someone-kissed-me-while-i-was-drunk-and-they-were-completely-sober-when-i-confronted-them-they-told-me-i-insisted-it-happens-and-begged-for-it-and-that-im-the-one-who-left-them-in-discomfort-and-they-said-no-and-i-kept-trying-and-thats-why-they-ended-up-kissing-me-but-at-the-same-time-they-admit-i-didnt-make-them-do-anything-against-their-will-while-im-pretty-sure-this-didnt-happen-and-i-remember-so-well-taking-distance-at-some-point-and-them-leaning-in-to-kiss-me-again-they-even-put-me-to-bed-and-kissed-my-forehead-what-they-told-me-left-me-so-confused-i-was-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-got-harassed-and-now-im-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-perpetrated-coercion-and-who-pressured-them-please-help-me-find-an-answer-165?country=co)[\[Image: Costa Rica\]Costa Rica](/ja/answer/someone-kissed-me-while-i-was-drunk-and-they-were-completely-sober-when-i-confronted-them-they-told-me-i-insisted-it-happens-and-begged-for-it-and-that-im-the-one-who-left-them-in-discomfort-and-they-said-no-and-i-kept-trying-and-thats-why-they-ended-up-kissing-me-but-at-the-same-time-they-admit-i-didnt-make-them-do-anything-against-their-will-while-im-pretty-sure-this-didnt-happen-and-i-remember-so-well-taking-distance-at-some-point-and-them-leaning-in-to-kiss-me-again-they-even-put-me-to-bed-and-kissed-my-forehead-what-they-told-me-left-me-so-confused-i-was-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-got-harassed-and-now-im-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-perpetrated-coercion-and-who-pressured-them-please-help-me-find-an-answer-165?country=cr)[\[Image: Cuba\]Cuba](/ja/answer/someone-kissed-me-while-i-was-drunk-and-they-were-completely-sober-when-i-confronted-them-they-told-me-i-insisted-it-happens-and-begged-for-it-and-that-im-the-one-who-left-them-in-discomfort-and-they-said-no-and-i-kept-trying-and-thats-why-they-ended-up-kissing-me-but-at-the-same-time-they-admit-i-didnt-make-them-do-anything-against-their-will-while-im-pretty-sure-this-didnt-happen-and-i-remember-so-well-taking-distance-at-some-point-and-them-leaning-in-to-kiss-me-again-they-even-put-me-to-bed-and-kissed-my-forehead-what-they-told-me-left-me-so-confused-i-was-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-got-harassed-and-now-im-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-perpetrated-coercion-and-who-pressured-them-please-help-me-find-an-answer-165?country=cu)[\[Image: Dominican Republic\]Dominican Republic](/ja/answer/someone-kissed-me-while-i-was-drunk-and-they-were-completely-sober-when-i-confronted-them-they-told-me-i-insisted-it-happens-and-begged-for-it-and-that-im-the-one-who-left-them-in-discomfort-and-they-said-no-and-i-kept-trying-and-thats-why-they-ended-up-kissing-me-but-at-the-same-time-they-admit-i-didnt-make-them-do-anything-against-their-will-while-im-pretty-sure-this-didnt-happen-and-i-remember-so-well-taking-distance-at-some-point-and-them-leaning-in-to-kiss-me-again-they-even-put-me-to-bed-and-kissed-my-forehead-what-they-told-me-left-me-so-confused-i-was-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-got-harassed-and-now-im-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-perpetrated-coercion-and-who-pressured-them-please-help-me-find-an-answer-165?country=do)[\[Image: Ecuador\]Ecuador](/ja/answer/someone-kissed-me-while-i-was-drunk-and-they-were-completely-sober-when-i-confronted-them-they-told-me-i-insisted-it-happens-and-begged-for-it-and-that-im-the-one-who-left-them-in-discomfort-and-they-said-no-and-i-kept-trying-and-thats-why-they-ended-up-kissing-me-but-at-the-same-time-they-admit-i-didnt-make-them-do-anything-against-their-will-while-im-pretty-sure-this-didnt-happen-and-i-remember-so-well-taking-distance-at-some-point-and-them-leaning-in-to-kiss-me-again-they-even-put-me-to-bed-and-kissed-my-forehead-what-they-told-me-left-me-so-confused-i-was-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-got-harassed-and-now-im-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-perpetrated-coercion-and-who-pressured-them-please-help-me-find-an-answer-165?country=ec)[\[Image: El Salvador\]El Salvador](/ja/answer/someone-kissed-me-while-i-was-drunk-and-they-were-completely-sober-when-i-confronted-them-they-told-me-i-insisted-it-happens-and-begged-for-it-and-that-im-the-one-who-left-them-in-discomfort-and-they-said-no-and-i-kept-trying-and-thats-why-they-ended-up-kissing-me-but-at-the-same-time-they-admit-i-didnt-make-them-do-anything-against-their-will-while-im-pretty-sure-this-didnt-happen-and-i-remember-so-well-taking-distance-at-some-point-and-them-leaning-in-to-kiss-me-again-they-even-put-me-to-bed-and-kissed-my-forehead-what-they-told-me-left-me-so-confused-i-was-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-got-harassed-and-now-im-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-perpetrated-coercion-and-who-pressured-them-please-help-me-find-an-answer-165?country=sv)[\[Image: Equatorial Guinea\]Equatorial Guinea](/ja/answer/someone-kissed-me-while-i-was-drunk-and-they-were-completely-sober-when-i-confronted-them-they-told-me-i-insisted-it-happens-and-begged-for-it-and-that-im-the-one-who-left-them-in-discomfort-and-they-said-no-and-i-kept-trying-and-thats-why-they-ended-up-kissing-me-but-at-the-same-time-they-admit-i-didnt-make-them-do-anything-against-their-will-while-im-pretty-sure-this-didnt-happen-and-i-remember-so-well-taking-distance-at-some-point-and-them-leaning-in-to-kiss-me-again-they-even-put-me-to-bed-and-kissed-my-forehead-what-they-told-me-left-me-so-confused-i-was-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-got-harassed-and-now-im-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-perpetrated-coercion-and-who-pressured-them-please-help-me-find-an-answer-165?country=gq)[\[Image: Guatemala\]Guatemala](/ja/answer/someone-kissed-me-while-i-was-drunk-and-they-were-completely-sober-when-i-confronted-them-they-told-me-i-insisted-it-happens-and-begged-for-it-and-that-im-the-one-who-left-them-in-discomfort-and-they-said-no-and-i-kept-trying-and-thats-why-they-ended-up-kissing-me-but-at-the-same-time-they-admit-i-didnt-make-them-do-anything-against-their-will-while-im-pretty-sure-this-didnt-happen-and-i-remember-so-well-taking-distance-at-some-point-and-them-leaning-in-to-kiss-me-again-they-even-put-me-to-bed-and-kissed-my-forehead-what-they-told-me-left-me-so-confused-i-was-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-got-harassed-and-now-im-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-perpetrated-coercion-and-who-pressured-them-please-help-me-find-an-answer-165?country=gt)[\[Image: Honduras\]Honduras](/ja/answer/someone-kissed-me-while-i-was-drunk-and-they-were-completely-sober-when-i-confronted-them-they-told-me-i-insisted-it-happens-and-begged-for-it-and-that-im-the-one-who-left-them-in-discomfort-and-they-said-no-and-i-kept-trying-and-thats-why-they-ended-up-kissing-me-but-at-the-same-time-they-admit-i-didnt-make-them-do-anything-against-their-will-while-im-pretty-sure-this-didnt-happen-and-i-remember-so-well-taking-distance-at-some-point-and-them-leaning-in-to-kiss-me-again-they-even-put-me-to-bed-and-kissed-my-forehead-what-they-told-me-left-me-so-confused-i-was-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-got-harassed-and-now-im-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-perpetrated-coercion-and-who-pressured-them-please-help-me-find-an-answer-165?country=hn)[\[Image: Ireland\]Ireland](/ja/answer/someone-kissed-me-while-i-was-drunk-and-they-were-completely-sober-when-i-confronted-them-they-told-me-i-insisted-it-happens-and-begged-for-it-and-that-im-the-one-who-left-them-in-discomfort-and-they-said-no-and-i-kept-trying-and-thats-why-they-ended-up-kissing-me-but-at-the-same-time-they-admit-i-didnt-make-them-do-anything-against-their-will-while-im-pretty-sure-this-didnt-happen-and-i-remember-so-well-taking-distance-at-some-point-and-them-leaning-in-to-kiss-me-again-they-even-put-me-to-bed-and-kissed-my-forehead-what-they-told-me-left-me-so-confused-i-was-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-got-harassed-and-now-im-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-perpetrated-coercion-and-who-pressured-them-please-help-me-find-an-answer-165?country=ie)[\[Image: Japan\]Japan](/ja/answer/someone-kissed-me-while-i-was-drunk-and-they-were-completely-sober-when-i-confronted-them-they-told-me-i-insisted-it-happens-and-begged-for-it-and-that-im-the-one-who-left-them-in-discomfort-and-they-said-no-and-i-kept-trying-and-thats-why-they-ended-up-kissing-me-but-at-the-same-time-they-admit-i-didnt-make-them-do-anything-against-their-will-while-im-pretty-sure-this-didnt-happen-and-i-remember-so-well-taking-distance-at-some-point-and-them-leaning-in-to-kiss-me-again-they-even-put-me-to-bed-and-kissed-my-forehead-what-they-told-me-left-me-so-confused-i-was-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-got-harassed-and-now-im-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-perpetrated-coercion-and-who-pressured-them-please-help-me-find-an-answer-165?country=jp)[\[Image: Mexico\]Mexico](/ja/answer/someone-kissed-me-while-i-was-drunk-and-they-were-completely-sober-when-i-confronted-them-they-told-me-i-insisted-it-happens-and-begged-for-it-and-that-im-the-one-who-left-them-in-discomfort-and-they-said-no-and-i-kept-trying-and-thats-why-they-ended-up-kissing-me-but-at-the-same-time-they-admit-i-didnt-make-them-do-anything-against-their-will-while-im-pretty-sure-this-didnt-happen-and-i-remember-so-well-taking-distance-at-some-point-and-them-leaning-in-to-kiss-me-again-they-even-put-me-to-bed-and-kissed-my-forehead-what-they-told-me-left-me-so-confused-i-was-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-got-harassed-and-now-im-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-perpetrated-coercion-and-who-pressured-them-please-help-me-find-an-answer-165?country=mx)[\[Image: Nicaragua\]Nicaragua](/ja/answer/someone-kissed-me-while-i-was-drunk-and-they-were-completely-sober-when-i-confronted-them-they-told-me-i-insisted-it-happens-and-begged-for-it-and-that-im-the-one-who-left-them-in-discomfort-and-they-said-no-and-i-kept-trying-and-thats-why-they-ended-up-kissing-me-but-at-the-same-time-they-admit-i-didnt-make-them-do-anything-against-their-will-while-im-pretty-sure-this-didnt-happen-and-i-remember-so-well-taking-distance-at-some-point-and-them-leaning-in-to-kiss-me-again-they-even-put-me-to-bed-and-kissed-my-forehead-what-they-told-me-left-me-so-confused-i-was-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-got-harassed-and-now-im-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-perpetrated-coercion-and-who-pressured-them-please-help-me-find-an-answer-165?country=ni)[\[Image: New Zealand\]New Zealand](/ja/answer/someone-kissed-me-while-i-was-drunk-and-they-were-completely-sober-when-i-confronted-them-they-told-me-i-insisted-it-happens-and-begged-for-it-and-that-im-the-one-who-left-them-in-discomfort-and-they-said-no-and-i-kept-trying-and-thats-why-they-ended-up-kissing-me-but-at-the-same-time-they-admit-i-didnt-make-them-do-anything-against-their-will-while-im-pretty-sure-this-didnt-happen-and-i-remember-so-well-taking-distance-at-some-point-and-them-leaning-in-to-kiss-me-again-they-even-put-me-to-bed-and-kissed-my-forehead-what-they-told-me-left-me-so-confused-i-was-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-got-harassed-and-now-im-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-perpetrated-coercion-and-who-pressured-them-please-help-me-find-an-answer-165?country=nz)[\[Image: Paraguay\]Paraguay](/ja/answer/someone-kissed-me-while-i-was-drunk-and-they-were-completely-sober-when-i-confronted-them-they-told-me-i-insisted-it-happens-and-begged-for-it-and-that-im-the-one-who-left-them-in-discomfort-and-they-said-no-and-i-kept-trying-and-thats-why-they-ended-up-kissing-me-but-at-the-same-time-they-admit-i-didnt-make-them-do-anything-against-their-will-while-im-pretty-sure-this-didnt-happen-and-i-remember-so-well-taking-distance-at-some-point-and-them-leaning-in-to-kiss-me-again-they-even-put-me-to-bed-and-kissed-my-forehead-what-they-told-me-left-me-so-confused-i-was-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-got-harassed-and-now-im-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-perpetrated-coercion-and-who-pressured-them-please-help-me-find-an-answer-165?country=py)[\[Image: Peru\]Peru](/ja/answer/someone-kissed-me-while-i-was-drunk-and-they-were-completely-sober-when-i-confronted-them-they-told-me-i-insisted-it-happens-and-begged-for-it-and-that-im-the-one-who-left-them-in-discomfort-and-they-said-no-and-i-kept-trying-and-thats-why-they-ended-up-kissing-me-but-at-the-same-time-they-admit-i-didnt-make-them-do-anything-against-their-will-while-im-pretty-sure-this-didnt-happen-and-i-remember-so-well-taking-distance-at-some-point-and-them-leaning-in-to-kiss-me-again-they-even-put-me-to-bed-and-kissed-my-forehead-what-they-told-me-left-me-so-confused-i-was-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-got-harassed-and-now-im-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-perpetrated-coercion-and-who-pressured-them-please-help-me-find-an-answer-165?country=pe)[\[Image: Puerto Rico\]Puerto Rico](/ja/answer/someone-kissed-me-while-i-was-drunk-and-they-were-completely-sober-when-i-confronted-them-they-told-me-i-insisted-it-happens-and-begged-for-it-and-that-im-the-one-who-left-them-in-discomfort-and-they-said-no-and-i-kept-trying-and-thats-why-they-ended-up-kissing-me-but-at-the-same-time-they-admit-i-didnt-make-them-do-anything-against-their-will-while-im-pretty-sure-this-didnt-happen-and-i-remember-so-well-taking-distance-at-some-point-and-them-leaning-in-to-kiss-me-again-they-even-put-me-to-bed-and-kissed-my-forehead-what-they-told-me-left-me-so-confused-i-was-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-got-harassed-and-now-im-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-perpetrated-coercion-and-who-pressured-them-please-help-me-find-an-answer-165?country=pr)[\[Image: Spain\]Spain](/ja/answer/someone-kissed-me-while-i-was-drunk-and-they-were-completely-sober-when-i-confronted-them-they-told-me-i-insisted-it-happens-and-begged-for-it-and-that-im-the-one-who-left-them-in-discomfort-and-they-said-no-and-i-kept-trying-and-thats-why-they-ended-up-kissing-me-but-at-the-same-time-they-admit-i-didnt-make-them-do-anything-against-their-will-while-im-pretty-sure-this-didnt-happen-and-i-remember-so-well-taking-distance-at-some-point-and-them-leaning-in-to-kiss-me-again-they-even-put-me-to-bed-and-kissed-my-forehead-what-they-told-me-left-me-so-confused-i-was-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-got-harassed-and-now-im-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-perpetrated-coercion-and-who-pressured-them-please-help-me-find-an-answer-165?country=es)[\[Image: United Kingdom\]United Kingdom](/ja/answer/someone-kissed-me-while-i-was-drunk-and-they-were-completely-sober-when-i-confronted-them-they-told-me-i-insisted-it-happens-and-begged-for-it-and-that-im-the-one-who-left-them-in-discomfort-and-they-said-no-and-i-kept-trying-and-thats-why-they-ended-up-kissing-me-but-at-the-same-time-they-admit-i-didnt-make-them-do-anything-against-their-will-while-im-pretty-sure-this-didnt-happen-and-i-remember-so-well-taking-distance-at-some-point-and-them-leaning-in-to-kiss-me-again-they-even-put-me-to-bed-and-kissed-my-forehead-what-they-told-me-left-me-so-confused-i-was-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-got-harassed-and-now-im-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-perpetrated-coercion-and-who-pressured-them-please-help-me-find-an-answer-165?country=gb)[\[Image: Uruguay\]Uruguay](/ja/answer/someone-kissed-me-while-i-was-drunk-and-they-were-completely-sober-when-i-confronted-them-they-told-me-i-insisted-it-happens-and-begged-for-it-and-that-im-the-one-who-left-them-in-discomfort-and-they-said-no-and-i-kept-trying-and-thats-why-they-ended-up-kissing-me-but-at-the-same-time-they-admit-i-didnt-make-them-do-anything-against-their-will-while-im-pretty-sure-this-didnt-happen-and-i-remember-so-well-taking-distance-at-some-point-and-them-leaning-in-to-kiss-me-again-they-even-put-me-to-bed-and-kissed-my-forehead-what-they-told-me-left-me-so-confused-i-was-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-got-harassed-and-now-im-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-perpetrated-coercion-and-who-pressured-them-please-help-me-find-an-answer-165?country=uy)[\[Image: Venezuela\]Venezuela](/ja/answer/someone-kissed-me-while-i-was-drunk-and-they-were-completely-sober-when-i-confronted-them-they-told-me-i-insisted-it-happens-and-begged-for-it-and-that-im-the-one-who-left-them-in-discomfort-and-they-said-no-and-i-kept-trying-and-thats-why-they-ended-up-kissing-me-but-at-the-same-time-they-admit-i-didnt-make-them-do-anything-against-their-will-while-im-pretty-sure-this-didnt-happen-and-i-remember-so-well-taking-distance-at-some-point-and-them-leaning-in-to-kiss-me-again-they-even-put-me-to-bed-and-kissed-my-forehead-what-they-told-me-left-me-so-confused-i-was-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-got-harassed-and-now-im-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-perpetrated-coercion-and-who-pressured-them-please-help-me-find-an-answer-165?country=ve)

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[English](/en/answer/someone-kissed-me-while-i-was-drunk-and-they-were-completely-sober-when-i-confronted-them-they-told-me-i-insisted-it-happens-and-begged-for-it-and-that-im-the-one-who-left-them-in-discomfort-and-they-said-no-and-i-kept-trying-and-thats-why-they-ended-up-kissing-me-but-at-the-same-time-they-admit-i-didnt-make-them-do-anything-against-their-will-while-im-pretty-sure-this-didnt-happen-and-i-remember-so-well-taking-distance-at-some-point-and-them-leaning-in-to-kiss-me-again-they-even-put-me-to-bed-and-kissed-my-forehead-what-they-told-me-left-me-so-confused-i-was-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-got-harassed-and-now-im-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-perpetrated-coercion-and-who-pressured-them-please-help-me-find-an-answer-165)[Español](/es/answer/someone-kissed-me-while-i-was-drunk-and-they-were-completely-sober-when-i-confronted-them-they-told-me-i-insisted-it-happens-and-begged-for-it-and-that-im-the-one-who-left-them-in-discomfort-and-they-said-no-and-i-kept-trying-and-thats-why-they-ended-up-kissing-me-but-at-the-same-time-they-admit-i-didnt-make-them-do-anything-against-their-will-while-im-pretty-sure-this-didnt-happen-and-i-remember-so-well-taking-distance-at-some-point-and-them-leaning-in-to-kiss-me-again-they-even-put-me-to-bed-and-kissed-my-forehead-what-they-told-me-left-me-so-confused-i-was-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-got-harassed-and-now-im-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-perpetrated-coercion-and-who-pressured-them-please-help-me-find-an-answer-165)[日本語](/ja/answer/someone-kissed-me-while-i-was-drunk-and-they-were-completely-sober-when-i-confronted-them-they-told-me-i-insisted-it-happens-and-begged-for-it-and-that-im-the-one-who-left-them-in-discomfort-and-they-said-no-and-i-kept-trying-and-thats-why-they-ended-up-kissing-me-but-at-the-same-time-they-admit-i-didnt-make-them-do-anything-against-their-will-while-im-pretty-sure-this-didnt-happen-and-i-remember-so-well-taking-distance-at-some-point-and-them-leaning-in-to-kiss-me-again-they-even-put-me-to-bed-and-kissed-my-forehead-what-they-told-me-left-me-so-confused-i-was-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-got-harassed-and-now-im-questioning-if-im-the-one-who-perpetrated-coercion-and-who-pressured-them-please-help-me-find-an-answer-165)

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見えるもの5つ（部屋の中と窓の外を見ることができます）

感じるもの4つ（目の前にあるもので触れるものは何ですか？）

聞こえるもの3つ

匂いを嗅ぐもの2つ

自分の好きなところ1つ。

最後に深呼吸をしましょう。

座っている場所から、周囲を見回して、質感のあるもの、見ていて楽しいもの、興味深いものを探してください。

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最後に深呼吸をしましょう。

以下の質問を自分に問いかけ、声に出して答えましょう。

1\. 私はどこにいますか？

2\. 今日は何曜日ですか？

3\. 今日の日付は何ですか？

4\. 今は何月ですか？

5\. 今は何年ですか？

6\. 私は何歳ですか？

7\. 今はどんな季節ですか？

最後に深呼吸をしましょう。

右手の手のひらを下にして左肩に置きます。左手の手のひらを下にして右肩に置きます。自分を強くしてくれるような言葉を選びましょう。例えば、「私は力強い」などです。まず文章を声に出して読み、右手で左肩を軽く叩き、次に左手で右肩を軽く叩きます。

交互に叩きます。左右5回ずつ、合計10回叩き、そのたびに文章を声に出して繰り返します。

最後に深呼吸をします。

腕を体の前で交差させ、胸に引き寄せます。右手で左上腕を、左手で右上腕を押さえます。優しく握り、腕を内側に引きます。しばらく握りしめた状態を保ち、その瞬間の自分にとって適切な握り加減を見つけます。力を入れたら力を抜きます。そして再びしばらく握りしめ、力を抜きます。しばらくそのままの状態を保ちます。

最後に深呼吸をします。

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