--- title: 私が経験したことが性的暴行だったのか、それとも期待通りにいかなくてただ腹を立てているだけなのか、判断に苦しんでいます... ~ Our Wave コミュニティ description: ご連絡いただきありがとうございます。あなたがおっしゃったことは、非常に苦痛で混乱した経験のようですね。自分の感情を理解し、起こったことが性的暴行であったかどうかを判断するのに苦労していることは理解できます。... url: 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Ecuador\]Ecuador](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=ec)[\[Image: El Salvador\]El Salvador](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=sv)[\[Image: Equatorial Guinea\]Equatorial Guinea](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=gq)[\[Image: Guatemala\]Guatemala](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=gt)[\[Image: Honduras\]Honduras](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=hn)[\[Image: Ireland\]Ireland](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=ie)[\[Image: Japan\]Japan](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=jp)[\[Image: Mexico\]Mexico](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=mx)[\[Image: Nicaragua\]Nicaragua](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=ni)[\[Image: New Zealand\]New Zealand](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=nz)[\[Image: Panama\]Panama](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=pa)[\[Image: Paraguay\]Paraguay](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=py)[\[Image: Peru\]Peru](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=pe)[\[Image: Puerto Rico\]Puerto Rico](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=pr)[\[Image: Spain\]Spain](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=es)[\[Image: United Kingdom\]United Kingdom](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=gb)[\[Image: Uruguay\]Uruguay](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=uy)[\[Image: Venezuela\]Venezuela](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=ve) 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[English](/en/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162)[Español](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162)[日本語](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162) [ 私たちについて ](https://www.ourwave.org/ja/who-we-are) ノースカロライナ州ローリーで を込めて制作されました。 詳細は私たちの[コミュニティガイドライン](https://www.ourwave.org/ja/community-guidelines)、[個人情報保護方針](https://www.ourwave.org/ja/privacy)、および[利用規約](https://www.ourwave.org/ja/terms)をお読みください。 フィードバックはありますか？ぜひお送りください 🇺🇸 # 私が経験したことが性的暴行だったのか、それとも期待通りにいかなくてただ腹を立てているだけなのか、判断に苦しんでいます。出会い系アプリで出会った男性から、公立図書館で一緒に勉強しようと誘われました。それだけだろうと思って同意しました。キスをしようと誘われたとき、断りはしませんでしたが、あまり楽しくありませんでした。その後、トイレで会おうと誘われ、したくなかったのですが、やらなければならないと感じました。嫌でしたし、彼はコンドームを持っていませんでしたが、私は何も言いませんでした。はっきりと断ったことがないので、同意したと思ったかもしれないので、暴行には当たらないと思います。その後、彼は私をブロックし、私たちは二度と話をしませんでしたが、妊娠の恐怖が大きなストレスになりました。彼に似た人を見るとパニック発作を起こし、彼が私に触れているのを感じます。その日の服は気持ち悪いので着ていません。その出来事は午前3時頃、私は少なくとも2日間眠っておらず、暴力的なパートナーと別れたばかりの頃でした。私は精神状態が良くなかったのですが、彼はそれを知りませんでした。自閉症の人として、いくつかのサインを見逃していたかもしれませんが、公共の場で物事が起こるとは思っていませんでした。その時は気分は良かったのですが、それ以来、それについて肯定的な感情も中立的な感情も持っていないので、それが性的暴行だったかどうか疑っています。私はこれまで男性とセックスしたことがないので、それが私が想像していたおとぎ話のような経験ではなかったために、がっかりして動揺する理由を探しているだけなのではないかと思います。 \[Image: Dr. Laura\] **Dr. Laura**による回答 博士号精神保健看護師＆性暴力看護師認定者 トピックス:[大人の経験を理解する](/ja/learn?tags=making-sense-of-adult-experiences) ご連絡いただきありがとうございます。あなたがおっしゃったことは、非常に苦痛で混乱した経験のようですね。自分の感情を理解し、起こったことが性的暴行であったかどうかを判断するのに苦労していることは理解できます。 まず、[同意](https://community.ourwave.org/_external/link?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.rainn.org%2Farticles%2Fwhat-is-consent&resourceId=non_specific&localeId=en&countryId=us&src=answer&questionId=a6695950-2421-4f11-9b27-493b27c0092b&sig=a83a147de60fce162dbdcda503b52bed0862615962013490bcb7ec31b0d16311)とは単に「ノー」がないということではないと認識することが重要です。それは、熱意があり、情報に基づいた、自由意志による「イエス」があることです。あなたは、明確で熱意のある同意を与える精神状態になかったようです。あなたは、性行為をしたくないが、それを実行しなければならないと感じたと述べました。この従うようにという圧力は、たとえ明確に述べられていなくても、 [強制](https://community.ourwave.org/_external/link?url=https%3A%2F%2Fstories.ourwave.org%2Fen%2Fanswer%2Fhow-do-i-know-if-i-was-coerced-into-having-sex-12&resourceId=non_specific&localeId=en&countryId=us&src=answer&questionId=a6695950-2421-4f11-9b27-493b27c0092b&sig=ca9561cfb0632987204922b24fa2cd6e733ef39828eb35867d4fee3b7efdb1e9)の一種である可能性があります。さらに、あなたが睡眠不足で、最近虐待的な関係から抜け出したばかりで、自閉症のために社会的合図を見逃していた可能性があるという事実はすべて、あなたが脆弱で、自分のニーズと境界を完全に主張できない状況に寄与しています。 彼があなたをブロックし、会った後に姿を消したことは心配で悲しいことです。これは、彼がお互いに心地よく合意の上での体験を確保することよりも、自分の満足感に関心があった可能性を示唆しています。あなたがそのような経験をされたことを残念に思います。あなたはそのようなことを経験するべきではありませんでした。それは親切な行為ではありませんし、それがあなたにとってどれほど辛かったかは想像することしかできません。 あなたが経験している身体的、感情的な反応、つまりパニック発作、彼の接触を感じること、特定の服を着ることへの不快感などは、すべて性的トラウマに対する一般的な反応です。その瞬間は大丈夫だとしても、苦痛、混乱、嫌悪感といった遅延反応が起こるのは当然です。 自分の体験に名前を付けられるのはあなただけですが、性的暴行は決してあなたのせいではないということを覚えておくことが重要です。あなたは、彼の行動や状況を止められなかったことについて責められるべきではありません。性的接触を開始した人の責任は、相手が性行為の間ずっと熱意を持って同意し、快適であることを確認することです。 自分の感情に疑問を持ち、その体験が期待に応えられなかったことにがっかりしているだけなのではないかと考えるのは当然です。しかし、あなたがそのような強い否定的な反応を示しているという事実は、その出会いに何か非常に不安なことがあり、あなたが単なる失望以上の何かを感じているかもしれないことを示唆しています。 この経験を整理するために、信頼できる友人、家族、セラピストに相談することをお勧めします。サポートや承認を与えてくれる人と自分の気持ちを話し合うことは役に立つでしょう。安心できる場合は、 [性的暴行ホットラインやチャットライン](https://community.ourwave.org/_external/link?url=https%3A%2F%2Fhotline.rainn.org%2Fonline%3F_ga%3D2.218187546.2025760637.1718739032-101655522.1716293937&resourceId=non_specific&localeId=en&countryId=us&src=answer&questionId=a6695950-2421-4f11-9b27-493b27c0092b&sig=7a320b4eedb38b8508078ffe58fdec2386cc46cd9f049d5df6ed5638db275c94)、またはサポート組織に連絡して、追加のリソースやガイダンスを求めることも検討してください。 覚えておいてください、あなたの感情は正当なものであり、すべての性的関係において、あなたの境界と幸福が尊重されるに値します。強制的な経験と分類するのに苦労することは珍しいことではありません。この複雑な状況を乗り越えるには、自分自身に優しくしてください。サポートが受けられることを知っておいてください。私たちを信頼してくださりありがとうございます。あなたは一人ではありません。 ランダムな質問 0 賛成票 賛成票 [ 0 コメント コメント 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Argentina\]Argentina](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=ar)[\[Image: Australia\]Australia](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=au)[\[Image: Bolivia\]Bolivia](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=bo)[\[Image: Canada\]Canada](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=ca)[\[Image: Chile\]Chile](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=cl)[\[Image: Colombia\]Colombia](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=co)[\[Image: Costa Rica\]Costa Rica](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=cr)[\[Image: Cuba\]Cuba](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=cu)[\[Image: Dominican Republic\]Dominican Republic](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=do)[\[Image: Ecuador\]Ecuador](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=ec)[\[Image: El Salvador\]El Salvador](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=sv)[\[Image: Equatorial Guinea\]Equatorial Guinea](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=gq)[\[Image: Guatemala\]Guatemala](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=gt)[\[Image: Honduras\]Honduras](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=hn)[\[Image: Ireland\]Ireland](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=ie)[\[Image: Japan\]Japan](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=jp)[\[Image: Mexico\]Mexico](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=mx)[\[Image: Nicaragua\]Nicaragua](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=ni)[\[Image: New Zealand\]New Zealand](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=nz)[\[Image: Panama\]Panama](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=pa)[\[Image: Paraguay\]Paraguay](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=py)[\[Image: Peru\]Peru](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=pe)[\[Image: Puerto Rico\]Puerto Rico](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=pr)[\[Image: Spain\]Spain](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=es)[\[Image: United Kingdom\]United Kingdom](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=gb)[\[Image: Uruguay\]Uruguay](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=uy)[\[Image: Venezuela\]Venezuela](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=ve) 日本語 [English](/en/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162)[Español](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162)[日本語](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162) 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