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# 児童による児童への性的虐待（COCSA）の場合、私たちは責任をどのように理解すべきでしょうか。当時子供だったことは、有害な行為を正当化したり説明したりできるでしょうか。加害者も子供だった場合、どの程度の責任が問われるのでしょうか。また、子供時代の理解力が限られていることを認めるなら、被害者は自分に起こったことに対する責任と非難をどのように理解できるでしょうか。

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[児童による児童への性的虐待（COCSA）](https://community.ourwave.org/_external/link?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.ourwave.org%2Fpost%2Fchild-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-frequently-asked-questions-and-considerations&resourceId=non_specific&localeId=en&countryId=us&src=answer&questionId=bf78b38f-c5b3-4ce4-a8ac-f2513e4e23e3&sig=70057f8a74f400b6505c541482fb4f8fbcb1f1464a84ec8c39f3ccf3b9ff0413)のケースにおける責任と説明責任について、難しい問題を提起してくださりありがとうございます。被害の現実と子どもの発達の複雑さの両方を尊重しながら、これらの難しい問題を分析するお手伝いをさせてください。

COCSA の状況における説明責任を理解するには、子供の認知的および道徳的発達がどのように機能するかを注意深く調べる必要があります。子供の脳、特に衝動制御、結果評価、道徳的推論を司る部分は、時間の経過とともに徐々に発達します。つまり、自分の行動の影響を完全に理解したり、理性的な選択をしたりする能力は、大人のそれとは根本的に異なります。子供は、行動が基本的な意味で「間違っている」とわかっていても、なぜ間違っているのか、またはそれが他の人にどのような永続的な影響を与えるのかを理解するための感情的および認知的成熟度が欠けている場合があります。

この発達的背景は、責任についての私たちの考え方に影響を与えますが、この説明が有害な行為を正当化するものではないことを理解することが重要です。たとえば、火災の原因を理解しても、火災が引き起こした被害が軽視されるわけではありません。加害者の年齢や発達段階に関係なく、生存者が経験した被害は現実的で重大です。これにより、引き起こされた真の被害と、それを引き起こした子供の限られた能力の両方を認めなければならない複雑な状況が生まれます。

このような状況では、多くの場合、危害を加えた子どもは、虐待を受けた経験を繰り返したり、環境内で深刻な問題の兆候を示したりしている可能性があります。そのため、罰だけでなく、リハビリテーション、教育、治療に重点を置いた専門家の介入が重要です。目標は、危害を加えた子どもが共感と理解を育み、将来の危害行為を防ぐのを助けることです。

こうした経験を処理している生存者にとって、責任の重層性を考慮することは役に立つかもしれません。被害を与えた子どもは実際に損害をもたらす選択をした一方で、周囲の大人やシステムにも、適切な監督、警告サインの認識、問題発生時の適切な介入など、果たせなかった責任があった可能性があります。この広い視点は、直接的な被害を軽減するものではありませんが、このような状況がどのように発展し、持続するかを理解するための枠組みを提供します。

多くの被害者は、永続的な影響を伴う真の危害を受けたこと、そしてこの危害を加えた人物が理解力の乏しい子供であったことなど、複数の真実を認めることで癒されると感じています。この視点は、行動を弁解することではなく、癒しの助けとなるような形で状況を理解することです。これについて葛藤を感じるのはまったく普通のことです。つまり、加害者が子供だった場合、引き起こされた危害に対して怒りを感じながら、責任の所在をどう特定するかで葛藤するのです。

多くの人は、誰を責めるかということだけに焦点を当てるのではなく、自分自身の治癒の道を優先する方が役に立つと考えています。これには、トラウマや虐待を理解しているメンタルヘルスの専門家と協力したり、支援グループとつながったり、責任や被害に関する複雑な感情を処理する方法を考えたりすることが含まれる場合があります。

あなたが被害者なら、これらの経験についてのあなたの感情がどんなものであれ、それは正当なものだということを知っておいてください。虐待の影響は現実です。あなたはこれらの複雑な感情を乗り越え、癒しに向かって努力する中で、サポートを受けるに値します。この難しい質問をしてくださってありがとうございます。私たちは感謝しています。

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[\[Image: United States\]United States](/ja/answer/how-should-we-understand-responsibility-in-cases-of-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-does-being-a-child-at-the-time-excuse-or-explain-the-harmful-behavior-what-level-of-accountability-makes-sense-when-the-person-who-caused-harm-was-also-a-child-and-if-we-acknowledge-their-limited-childhood-understanding-how-can-survivors-make-sense-of-responsibility-and-blame-for-what-happened-to-them-402?country=us)[\[Image: Argentina\]Argentina](/ja/answer/how-should-we-understand-responsibility-in-cases-of-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-does-being-a-child-at-the-time-excuse-or-explain-the-harmful-behavior-what-level-of-accountability-makes-sense-when-the-person-who-caused-harm-was-also-a-child-and-if-we-acknowledge-their-limited-childhood-understanding-how-can-survivors-make-sense-of-responsibility-and-blame-for-what-happened-to-them-402?country=ar)[\[Image: Australia\]Australia](/ja/answer/how-should-we-understand-responsibility-in-cases-of-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-does-being-a-child-at-the-time-excuse-or-explain-the-harmful-behavior-what-level-of-accountability-makes-sense-when-the-person-who-caused-harm-was-also-a-child-and-if-we-acknowledge-their-limited-childhood-understanding-how-can-survivors-make-sense-of-responsibility-and-blame-for-what-happened-to-them-402?country=au)[\[Image: Bolivia\]Bolivia](/ja/answer/how-should-we-understand-responsibility-in-cases-of-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-does-being-a-child-at-the-time-excuse-or-explain-the-harmful-behavior-what-level-of-accountability-makes-sense-when-the-person-who-caused-harm-was-also-a-child-and-if-we-acknowledge-their-limited-childhood-understanding-how-can-survivors-make-sense-of-responsibility-and-blame-for-what-happened-to-them-402?country=bo)[\[Image: Canada\]Canada](/ja/answer/how-should-we-understand-responsibility-in-cases-of-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-does-being-a-child-at-the-time-excuse-or-explain-the-harmful-behavior-what-level-of-accountability-makes-sense-when-the-person-who-caused-harm-was-also-a-child-and-if-we-acknowledge-their-limited-childhood-understanding-how-can-survivors-make-sense-of-responsibility-and-blame-for-what-happened-to-them-402?country=ca)[\[Image: Colombia\]Colombia](/ja/answer/how-should-we-understand-responsibility-in-cases-of-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-does-being-a-child-at-the-time-excuse-or-explain-the-harmful-behavior-what-level-of-accountability-makes-sense-when-the-person-who-caused-harm-was-also-a-child-and-if-we-acknowledge-their-limited-childhood-understanding-how-can-survivors-make-sense-of-responsibility-and-blame-for-what-happened-to-them-402?country=co)[\[Image: Costa Rica\]Costa Rica](/ja/answer/how-should-we-understand-responsibility-in-cases-of-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-does-being-a-child-at-the-time-excuse-or-explain-the-harmful-behavior-what-level-of-accountability-makes-sense-when-the-person-who-caused-harm-was-also-a-child-and-if-we-acknowledge-their-limited-childhood-understanding-how-can-survivors-make-sense-of-responsibility-and-blame-for-what-happened-to-them-402?country=cr)[\[Image: Cuba\]Cuba](/ja/answer/how-should-we-understand-responsibility-in-cases-of-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-does-being-a-child-at-the-time-excuse-or-explain-the-harmful-behavior-what-level-of-accountability-makes-sense-when-the-person-who-caused-harm-was-also-a-child-and-if-we-acknowledge-their-limited-childhood-understanding-how-can-survivors-make-sense-of-responsibility-and-blame-for-what-happened-to-them-402?country=cu)[\[Image: Dominican Republic\]Dominican Republic](/ja/answer/how-should-we-understand-responsibility-in-cases-of-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-does-being-a-child-at-the-time-excuse-or-explain-the-harmful-behavior-what-level-of-accountability-makes-sense-when-the-person-who-caused-harm-was-also-a-child-and-if-we-acknowledge-their-limited-childhood-understanding-how-can-survivors-make-sense-of-responsibility-and-blame-for-what-happened-to-them-402?country=do)[\[Image: Ecuador\]Ecuador](/ja/answer/how-should-we-understand-responsibility-in-cases-of-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-does-being-a-child-at-the-time-excuse-or-explain-the-harmful-behavior-what-level-of-accountability-makes-sense-when-the-person-who-caused-harm-was-also-a-child-and-if-we-acknowledge-their-limited-childhood-understanding-how-can-survivors-make-sense-of-responsibility-and-blame-for-what-happened-to-them-402?country=ec)[\[Image: El Salvador\]El Salvador](/ja/answer/how-should-we-understand-responsibility-in-cases-of-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-does-being-a-child-at-the-time-excuse-or-explain-the-harmful-behavior-what-level-of-accountability-makes-sense-when-the-person-who-caused-harm-was-also-a-child-and-if-we-acknowledge-their-limited-childhood-understanding-how-can-survivors-make-sense-of-responsibility-and-blame-for-what-happened-to-them-402?country=sv)[\[Image: Equatorial Guinea\]Equatorial Guinea](/ja/answer/how-should-we-understand-responsibility-in-cases-of-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-does-being-a-child-at-the-time-excuse-or-explain-the-harmful-behavior-what-level-of-accountability-makes-sense-when-the-person-who-caused-harm-was-also-a-child-and-if-we-acknowledge-their-limited-childhood-understanding-how-can-survivors-make-sense-of-responsibility-and-blame-for-what-happened-to-them-402?country=gq)[\[Image: Guatemala\]Guatemala](/ja/answer/how-should-we-understand-responsibility-in-cases-of-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-does-being-a-child-at-the-time-excuse-or-explain-the-harmful-behavior-what-level-of-accountability-makes-sense-when-the-person-who-caused-harm-was-also-a-child-and-if-we-acknowledge-their-limited-childhood-understanding-how-can-survivors-make-sense-of-responsibility-and-blame-for-what-happened-to-them-402?country=gt)[\[Image: Honduras\]Honduras](/ja/answer/how-should-we-understand-responsibility-in-cases-of-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-does-being-a-child-at-the-time-excuse-or-explain-the-harmful-behavior-what-level-of-accountability-makes-sense-when-the-person-who-caused-harm-was-also-a-child-and-if-we-acknowledge-their-limited-childhood-understanding-how-can-survivors-make-sense-of-responsibility-and-blame-for-what-happened-to-them-402?country=hn)[\[Image: Ireland\]Ireland](/ja/answer/how-should-we-understand-responsibility-in-cases-of-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-does-being-a-child-at-the-time-excuse-or-explain-the-harmful-behavior-what-level-of-accountability-makes-sense-when-the-person-who-caused-harm-was-also-a-child-and-if-we-acknowledge-their-limited-childhood-understanding-how-can-survivors-make-sense-of-responsibility-and-blame-for-what-happened-to-them-402?country=ie)[\[Image: Japan\]Japan](/ja/answer/how-should-we-understand-responsibility-in-cases-of-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-does-being-a-child-at-the-time-excuse-or-explain-the-harmful-behavior-what-level-of-accountability-makes-sense-when-the-person-who-caused-harm-was-also-a-child-and-if-we-acknowledge-their-limited-childhood-understanding-how-can-survivors-make-sense-of-responsibility-and-blame-for-what-happened-to-them-402?country=jp)[\[Image: Mexico\]Mexico](/ja/answer/how-should-we-understand-responsibility-in-cases-of-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-does-being-a-child-at-the-time-excuse-or-explain-the-harmful-behavior-what-level-of-accountability-makes-sense-when-the-person-who-caused-harm-was-also-a-child-and-if-we-acknowledge-their-limited-childhood-understanding-how-can-survivors-make-sense-of-responsibility-and-blame-for-what-happened-to-them-402?country=mx)[\[Image: Nicaragua\]Nicaragua](/ja/answer/how-should-we-understand-responsibility-in-cases-of-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-does-being-a-child-at-the-time-excuse-or-explain-the-harmful-behavior-what-level-of-accountability-makes-sense-when-the-person-who-caused-harm-was-also-a-child-and-if-we-acknowledge-their-limited-childhood-understanding-how-can-survivors-make-sense-of-responsibility-and-blame-for-what-happened-to-them-402?country=ni)[\[Image: New Zealand\]New Zealand](/ja/answer/how-should-we-understand-responsibility-in-cases-of-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-does-being-a-child-at-the-time-excuse-or-explain-the-harmful-behavior-what-level-of-accountability-makes-sense-when-the-person-who-caused-harm-was-also-a-child-and-if-we-acknowledge-their-limited-childhood-understanding-how-can-survivors-make-sense-of-responsibility-and-blame-for-what-happened-to-them-402?country=nz)[\[Image: Panama\]Panama](/ja/answer/how-should-we-understand-responsibility-in-cases-of-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-does-being-a-child-at-the-time-excuse-or-explain-the-harmful-behavior-what-level-of-accountability-makes-sense-when-the-person-who-caused-harm-was-also-a-child-and-if-we-acknowledge-their-limited-childhood-understanding-how-can-survivors-make-sense-of-responsibility-and-blame-for-what-happened-to-them-402?country=pa)[\[Image: Paraguay\]Paraguay](/ja/answer/how-should-we-understand-responsibility-in-cases-of-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-does-being-a-child-at-the-time-excuse-or-explain-the-harmful-behavior-what-level-of-accountability-makes-sense-when-the-person-who-caused-harm-was-also-a-child-and-if-we-acknowledge-their-limited-childhood-understanding-how-can-survivors-make-sense-of-responsibility-and-blame-for-what-happened-to-them-402?country=py)[\[Image: Peru\]Peru](/ja/answer/how-should-we-understand-responsibility-in-cases-of-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-does-being-a-child-at-the-time-excuse-or-explain-the-harmful-behavior-what-level-of-accountability-makes-sense-when-the-person-who-caused-harm-was-also-a-child-and-if-we-acknowledge-their-limited-childhood-understanding-how-can-survivors-make-sense-of-responsibility-and-blame-for-what-happened-to-them-402?country=pe)[\[Image: Puerto Rico\]Puerto Rico](/ja/answer/how-should-we-understand-responsibility-in-cases-of-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-does-being-a-child-at-the-time-excuse-or-explain-the-harmful-behavior-what-level-of-accountability-makes-sense-when-the-person-who-caused-harm-was-also-a-child-and-if-we-acknowledge-their-limited-childhood-understanding-how-can-survivors-make-sense-of-responsibility-and-blame-for-what-happened-to-them-402?country=pr)[\[Image: Spain\]Spain](/ja/answer/how-should-we-understand-responsibility-in-cases-of-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-does-being-a-child-at-the-time-excuse-or-explain-the-harmful-behavior-what-level-of-accountability-makes-sense-when-the-person-who-caused-harm-was-also-a-child-and-if-we-acknowledge-their-limited-childhood-understanding-how-can-survivors-make-sense-of-responsibility-and-blame-for-what-happened-to-them-402?country=es)[\[Image: United Kingdom\]United Kingdom](/ja/answer/how-should-we-understand-responsibility-in-cases-of-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-does-being-a-child-at-the-time-excuse-or-explain-the-harmful-behavior-what-level-of-accountability-makes-sense-when-the-person-who-caused-harm-was-also-a-child-and-if-we-acknowledge-their-limited-childhood-understanding-how-can-survivors-make-sense-of-responsibility-and-blame-for-what-happened-to-them-402?country=gb)[\[Image: Uruguay\]Uruguay](/ja/answer/how-should-we-understand-responsibility-in-cases-of-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-does-being-a-child-at-the-time-excuse-or-explain-the-harmful-behavior-what-level-of-accountability-makes-sense-when-the-person-who-caused-harm-was-also-a-child-and-if-we-acknowledge-their-limited-childhood-understanding-how-can-survivors-make-sense-of-responsibility-and-blame-for-what-happened-to-them-402?country=uy)[\[Image: Venezuela\]Venezuela](/ja/answer/how-should-we-understand-responsibility-in-cases-of-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-does-being-a-child-at-the-time-excuse-or-explain-the-harmful-behavior-what-level-of-accountability-makes-sense-when-the-person-who-caused-harm-was-also-a-child-and-if-we-acknowledge-their-limited-childhood-understanding-how-can-survivors-make-sense-of-responsibility-and-blame-for-what-happened-to-them-402?country=ve)

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暴力、憎悪、搾取

脅迫、憎悪に満ちた言葉、性的強要

いじめ、または望まない接触

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虚偽の要求、または別人を名乗ること

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見えるもの5つ（部屋の中と窓の外を見ることができます）

感じるもの4つ（目の前にあるもので触れるものは何ですか？）

聞こえるもの3つ

匂いを嗅ぐもの2つ

自分の好きなところ1つ。

最後に深呼吸をしましょう。

座っている場所から、周囲を見回して、質感のあるもの、見ていて楽しいもの、興味深いものを探してください。

何かを手に持ち、その物に全神経を集中してください。影が落ちている部分や、物の中に形が浮かび上がっている部分に注目してください。手に持った時の重さや軽さ、指の裏側の表面の質感を感じてみてください（ペットを飼っている場合は、ペットと一緒に行うこともできます）。

最後に深呼吸をしましょう。

以下の質問を自分に問いかけ、声に出して答えましょう。

1\. 私はどこにいますか？

2\. 今日は何曜日ですか？

3\. 今日の日付は何ですか？

4\. 今は何月ですか？

5\. 今は何年ですか？

6\. 私は何歳ですか？

7\. 今はどんな季節ですか？

最後に深呼吸をしましょう。

右手の手のひらを下にして左肩に置きます。左手の手のひらを下にして右肩に置きます。自分を強くしてくれるような言葉を選びましょう。例えば、「私は力強い」などです。まず文章を声に出して読み、右手で左肩を軽く叩き、次に左手で右肩を軽く叩きます。

交互に叩きます。左右5回ずつ、合計10回叩き、そのたびに文章を声に出して繰り返します。

最後に深呼吸をします。

腕を体の前で交差させ、胸に引き寄せます。右手で左上腕を、左手で右上腕を押さえます。優しく握り、腕を内側に引きます。しばらく握りしめた状態を保ち、その瞬間の自分にとって適切な握り加減を見つけます。力を入れたら力を抜きます。そして再びしばらく握りしめ、力を抜きます。しばらくそのままの状態を保ちます。

最後に深呼吸をします。

別のグラウンディング活動を試してみましょう

私は地に足がついていて準備ができていると感じている